Showing posts with label 14 months. Show all posts
Showing posts with label 14 months. Show all posts

08 December 2007

Monkey See, Monkey Do


Lately, Sasha has been a great imitator. We are learning about some of the things we do that we don't realize we are doing! Here are some fun examples.

My husband has a cold with a cough, runny nose, and sneezing. The whole works. Sasha darling, who is not sick, now likes to imitate her daddy. You'd think she's got a cold with all the fake coughing, sneezing, and sniffling noises she's making. She thinks it's hilarious. I tell her "bless you!" every time she fake sneezes, and that really keeps her going.

Then today as Sasha was brushing her teeth, I noticed she kept tilting her head down so her chin touched her chest once in a while. I couldn't figure out what she was doing. Brush-brush-brush-brush-tilt, repeat. Eventually, when she finally got a stream of spittle going and managed to make a 'pthooey' sound, I realized what she was doing...she was trying to spit. Just like mommy and daddy do when they brush their teeth. I didn't realize she was watching us so closely.

Cassie has been on the phone all the time lately, talking to her friends, as 13 year old teenager like to do. She seems like she's got that phone permanently attached to her ear. Sasha likes to walk around with random objects up to her ear while 'talking', just like sister talking on the phone. Then Sasha started saying "Dood" on her 'phone' all the time. Again, it took me a little while to realize what was going on. Cassie was talking excitedly to one of her friends, chanting "Dude! DUDE! DUDE!", and there was Sasha saying "Dood! Dood! Dood!". Hah! I guess she thinks when you're on the phone, you should say "dude" a lot.

I'm sure I'll have plenty more of these.

07 December 2007

Clingy, Affectionate, Hungry, Whiny


As my title suggests, Sasha has been clingy, super affectionate, whining a lot, and strangely very hungry. I'm glad that she is eating so well lately, and I do love all the extra affection she's been showing us. But it's interesting. She's affectionate to everyone, everything, all the time. If she is awake, she is constantly hugging or kissing on something. A stuffed animal, a doll, a family member, or even a calculator manual. Yes. She kissed a calculator manual!? Silly little girl! She's been more content to just park herself in my lap or in my arms and she'll just stay there.

Her second molar finally broke through. I suspect she is fighting off whatever illness my husband is suffering from. She's been eating like a horse, so I think she's probably going through a growth spurt. Anyone who remembers what a growth spurt feels like, I'm sure they can remember growing pains. They hurt! So I'd presume a growth spurt is a painful process for a young child. Combine all of the above, and we have a whiny, clingy child. I wish I could take away all her pain and discomfort.

04 December 2007

Sasha's House


Here is one of the toys Sasha LOVES whenever we go to her little preschool program. It's an old toy though, not available for sale anymore. It's a Little Tykes play house. She loves to open and close the front door. The mailbox opens and closes and there is a plastic envelope that can go in the mailbox like little fake mail. There's a little garden with plastic carrots and turnips and stuff that she can pull out. There are flowers and spinning birds. And even a doorbell. She mostly just opens and closes the door, and opens and closes the mailbox repeatedly, never getting bored of that.

Most of the time she spends at the Monday preschool program, she spends defending her house. Sometimes other little intruders try to come inside but she stands her ground. She doesn't push them. They might try to push her, but she stubbornly stands firm and eventually they go away and leave her to her house again. Now that's my girl!

Sasha Can Moo....Can You?

Sasha has added some new "words" to her vocabulary...animal sounds! I've been working with her on those, especially now that she has a puzzle with pictures of animals on it that she likes to play with. She's also taken a new enjoyment in reading with me, and some of her books have animals in them also.
She can now Quack like a duck, Tweet like a bird, Woof like a dog, Moo like a cow, and Baa like a sheep. We're working on some other sounds too but I don't think I've heard them yet. Yesterday, I saw a flock of geese flying overhead while we were in a store parking lot. I pointed up in the air at them and said "Look Sasha! Birds!". She watched in rapt amazement at the geese flying through the air. She then signed the sign language for 'bird' and said "Tweet Tweet". Clever little girl!

Like I said, Sasha has a great interest in books lately. She'll grab a book from her bookcase, then she'll walk over to me. If I am sitting on the floor cross legged, she'll turn herself around so her back is facing me and will slowly walk herself backwards and sit herself down in my lap. That means it's time to read. She turns the pages and points at the pictures in her books, and I read to her or tell her what is going on in the pictures. I'm so glad that she is so interested in reading.

Sasha still has a mouthful of teeth coming in and several of those teeth look painful. My husband is still sick, and he's been trying to keep from spreading it to me or Sasha. Sasha has been a little more crabby than usual today and she's been grabbing at her neck. I'm not sure if that means she's getting a sore throat or not. I hope not! My husband says he feels absolutely miserable so I hope she is spared.

30 November 2007

Demands


At the doctor's office waiting on her Daddy. She got a big kick out of the little chairs and the books and puzzles.


Lately, Sasha has been making requests. Or shall I say demands?
This past week, whenever I sit on the floor, Sasha will toddle up to me, sit in my lap, look me straight in the eyes with a stern expression, sign milk at me, and will grab at my shirt as if to say "Milk now woman...that's an order". She's always signed milk, but usually during nursing, not as a request to nurse until now. It's funny but it will quickly get old.
"Tea" is her newest sign. Of course. She's a little tea fiend. Again, it's as a request/order, not as a cute little "aww look mommy it's tea" kind of thing. It's like "Tea NOW mother". I'm pretty proud of her new sign.

Today she was playing with her cabbage patch doll and it was very cute. She was mothering it. She was feeding it a toy bottle, hugging and kissing it, dancing with it, making it dance, making it ride her toy car, and she gave it to her daddy to take care of a few times as well. She's been affectionate with her doll, her stuffed polar bear, and her stuffed doggy.
Actually, she's been super affectionate all week to everyone. Kisses for everybody, especially mommy! I swear I get like 50 spontaneous kisses a day from that sweet child. I can't imagine a more affectionate toddler.

She wants to give her daddy kisses too, but unfortunately he is sick. I had to take the night off work last night as he was ill. It came on very suddenly. Within an hour or two, he went from ok to unable to speak. He came down with a sore throat, his nose and ears and sinuses hurt. I think he had a headache and body ache as well but no fever. It was scary how fast it seemed to be spreading so I took him to the doctor. They were mostly useless. The rest of us have been ok. So far I'm feeling fine, Sasha is showing no signs of illness, and Cassie is ok too. I'm hoping that whatever he's got was something I got vaccinated against with my flu shot, thus passing immunity to Sasha. I hope. I just have to keep an eye on Cassie as she did not get a flu shot. I REALLY hope we don't have everybody sick! That would suck.

28 November 2007

Bookstore Beauty

At the bookstore after trying to get her portraits taken.

I just LOVE her dress and pigtails. She looks so tiny amongst the aisles of books.

Holiday Pictures

Professional Christmas Portraits. Click to enlarge
I didn't get Sasha's 1 year professional pictures taken. Instead I waited and took her for the holidays. I figured I'd get something for a christmas card. I got a GORGEOUS dress for her. The pictures don't do it justice, it was sparkly and a pretty deep emerald color with fluffy white trimming on the wrists and bottom.
This photo session was a bit of a disappointment. I took her to the place I always take her. The girl there that usually takes Sasha's picture must have had the day off. Instead there was some really LOUD obnoxious woman. The moment I saw the woman working with another child, I knew we would have trouble. Sasha is really shy, easily upset, and dare I say high strung? So a loud, overbearing obnoxious in-your-face sort of person is going to get Sasha crying and upset. Not the look I was going for on a christmas card.
When it was our turn, I tried to tell the woman. I said Sasha is shy and doesn't really like loud or aggressive people, she prefers to warm up to people. She acted offended. "WELL SHE WON'T LIKE ME CUZ I'M LOUD!" (duh?) and she started trying to poke Sasha in the belly, which of course annoyed Sasha and made her cling to me. The woman tried to pick Sasha up and put her on the stage and Sasha got pissed. She kept trying to get in Sasha's face, yelling BOO, tickling her, and doing other stuff but of course it just pissed off and scared Sasha even more.
We spent the next 20 minutes trying to calm Sasha down. The woman knew sign language, so the moment I mentioned that Sasha was signing to me ("all done!") she actually quieted down and started signing to Sasha. Sasha started warming up to the woman while she was in her sign language phase.
Once Sasha was moderately calmed down, I was able to get her on stage by letting her play with a prop gift box. The top of the box came off so I hid a few other props in the box and Sasha played with that. It was enough to mostly get some pictures. Sasha gave us like 3 minutes before she had another melt down so we weren't able to do any cute poses or backgrounds or anything. Just a non-crying baby was the best we could do. Sasha looks like she's thinking "Wtf?" at the photographer in most of the pics.

After the pictures were over, we were sitting at a desk to review the pictures and put together portraits and packages. Sasha was running around, happy as a clam. Figures. This apparently annoyed the woman. Whatever. She tried to pick Sasha up by her upper arms. Now I don't know about anyone else, but you pick babies up under their armpits, you don't grab them by their arms. I cringed. Sasha arched her back and threw a holy temper tantrum. The woman acted so offended and I thought she was going to throw Sasha on the ground or drop her. Fortunately she didn't, she at least set Sasha back down. But still, the nerve. This woman works with children as a job? I don't understand. She's lucky my husband wasn't there or he'd probably have kicked her ass a few times.

Although the pictures were cute (because Sasha was in them), I knew they could have been so much better. Like I said, I'm disappointed. The pics are not what I envisioned. When we got home, Sasha was so gorgeous in her pigtails, big blue eyes, and pretty dress. I tried to take some pictures with my camera but I couldn't get a good picture. She was tired and wired by the time I got her home. So I guess the picture I wanted is just not meant to be. I'll have to hold that image of my gorgeous little holiday girl in my head instead.

25 November 2007

BornLearning.org

I saw a commercial on tv for BornLearning.org. Apparently it's a partnership between the United Way, the Ad Council, Civitas, and Families and Work Institute to help parents, caregivers, and the community create quality early learning opportunities for young children. As the mother of a young child, the ad caught my attention so I checked out the website and found it interesting.
For the most part, it had information that I already knew, and listed a few cute ideas for ways to turn regular daytime activities into learning opportunities. The one pdf article that caught my interest was titled "Understanding Children: How does my child learn?" I'm not sure how long this site will be up, so I hope they don't mind me pasting part of their cute little quiz, a guide to three learning styles:
The following is a guide to three learning styles.
Is he a looker?
When he wishes to express himself, he...
...points to what he wants
...responds with gestures, not words
...plays very quietly
...likes to observe goings on, rather than participate
...didn't babble until late in his first year
When he plays, he...
...likes dangling toys, colors, and motion
...is visually alert
...looks at picture books
When he moves about, he...
...watches his hands while playing
...reached for objects before he was 5 months of age
...likes to explore small objects with his hands
...likes to pick up and place small puzzle pieces, and enjoys puzzles and shape sorters
When he is fussy, he...
...is quited by the sight of a familiar face
...is calmed by a familiar toy
...is easily distracted by a change of scenery
Is he a Listener?
When he wishes to express himself, he...
...babbled early and frequently
...said his first words before age one
...follows directions easily
...tries to imitate words spoken by others
...uses inflection when vocalizing
When he plays, he...
...likes rattles and noisemakers
...likes rhymes, songs, and finger plays
...seems to 'eavesdrop' in conversations
...babbles to his toys
When he moves about, he...
...was slow to sit up, and more interested in babbling
...is consumed by talking, not walking
...prefers riding toys that make noise
...uses toys mainly to create sounds
When he is fussy, he...
...is quieted by the sound of a familiar voice
...is calmed by music
...is easily distracted by a xylophone or piano
Is he a Mover?
When he wishes to express himself, he...
...uses gestures rather than words
...is prone to tantrums
...shakes his head to indicate "no"
...grabs at objects and toys impulsively
...rarely babbles at all
When he plays, he...
...likes being bounced and tickled
...likes to be rocked, cuddled, and held
...often kicks at his crib mobile
...enjoys swings and bike rides
When he moves about, he...
...sat without support before six months of age
...crawled before eight months of age and walked before age one
...is very active
...used riding toys before ten months of age
When he is fussy, he...
...is quieted by being picked up
...is calmed by being held and rocked
...is easily distracted by a massage or car ride
LOOKING or Visual Learning involves responding to visual stimulation, like motion, color, shape, and size.
LISTENING or Auditory Learning has more to do with sounds and spoken words.
MOVING or Tactile and Kinesthetic Learning, happens through touch and movement.

By this little quiz, I'd have to say my 14 month old daughter Sasha is a LISTENER. I would have originally thought she was a LOOKER but the more I think about it, I guess she must be a Listener after all.
I think, however, that all babies learn by looking, listening, and moving...not just by one method alone. I'm sure the BornLearning folks didn't mean to imply otherwise. The BornLearning folks do, however, suggest that you adjust your teaching style to the learning style of your toddler. I do agree with that to some degree. Of course you should individualize your teaching style to your toddler's learning style. But should you only teach your LOOKING child in a LOOKING style? That I don't think I agree completely with. I think a child should learn how to learn in the styles that he is weak in, to make him more well rounded. To omit other learning styles, I believe, would make him stronger in an area he is already strong in and weaken his ability to learn in other styles.
But I'm no child development expert, just a mother. I think I'll just take this information with a grain of salt and continue what I'm already doing. I do find it interesting and I love finding ways to describe my child. As a former Cosmo reader, I love quizzes anyways.

24 November 2007

Happy Thanksgiving

We didn't do anything special for our Thanksgiving holiday, as I had to work.
Cassie went up to my parents for the four-day weekend. She likes to do the Black Friday shopping stuff with her Grandma. They can have it. I think Black Friday shoppers are insane. I'm staying in my home where it's safe and I'm sleeping. I'll do my xmas shopping online this year most likely. Cassie says she and her Grandma went to Walmart early Black Friday morning, and there was a lot of pushing and shoving. People were hitting Cassie with their carts :( But she's ok, she didn't get hurt and she probably did her own share of shoving as well. I guess they did loot a good digital camera for only $90 and a Guitar Hero game for about $60. Not bad!

21 November 2007

Toys Toddlers REALLY like


On Monday and Tuesday, I took Sasha to the local toddler preschool program that we found. We're going to make it a regular thing to do now on Mondays and Tuesdays. It's so good for her! The part of the program we've participated in so far is two part. First the kids play in the heavily stocked toy room. Then after about an hour, the kids get to play with bikes and balls in the elementary school gym.

The toy collections let me know what sort of toys she actually likes. I swear they've got aisles and aisles of toys stacked from floor to ceiling. Any toy you can think of ever made, they've got it and when Sasha likes one I can borrow it! This alone should save me money because I don't have to waste money on toys she won't like anymore.

Toys she liked this week:
Wooden pegged puzzles
Sit & Spin - remember these when you were a kid?
Playhouse- Sasha was guarding a play house like it was her turf
Toy Vacuum (go figure)- popular with all the toddlers!


I found that I really like Little Tikes toys. They've got the coolest stuff, very sturdy, and kids loved them. There were lots of little kids the same age as Sasha and pretty much all the cool toys that the kids liked were made by Little Tikes. I think everything else (Fisher Price, Playschool) broke under the strain of a gazillion toddlers playing with them. Wanna know if a toy is tough? Throw it in the room with this crowd of toddlers, haha!

So anyways, I borrowed the Sit & Spin toy. The one we borrowed has a button with lights and music on the part in the center that you hold.

At the gym, Sasha was fond of this little car:

Isn't it cute? I could push her around with the pole, or she could scoot it around herself, although she mostly scooted it backwards. She had a blast with it.
Anyways, in the gym today, Sasha met her first bully. Oh no! There was a three year old rich kid, very cute, with his imported au pair. In the gym portion of toddler preschool, he took a liking to Sasha. I don't know how to describe it but it was like he was herding sheep, if you've ever seen a sheep dog do that. Wherever Sasha would step, he would jump in front of her to prevent her from moving and would yell "You stay right here baby!". She was basically stuck standing in one spot as he wouldn't let her go anywhere. She didn't get upset. She just glared at him and didn't give up. She kept trying to move anyways. Eventually she sat down on the floor, to which he yelled "Yeah baby, you just sit there and don't move." Whenever she tried to stand up, he would hold her down so she couldn't get up.

I mostly watched for a few reasons. I've never seen Sasha encounter a social situation like this before and wanted to see how she reacted. She did pretty well I think! She just kept doing what she was trying to do and didn't give up trying. I also wanted to see what the kid was like, since Sasha will be playing in this program with this child on a weekly basis. I wanted to see if his nanny would step in and stop him. Nope. She just yelled at him and said "no don't do that" but that's not effective on a 3 year old. So she seemed mostly ineffective. Sasha didn't seem to be in any harm, and I think she learned from this social encounter that 3 year olds are annoying.

Eventually I did extricate Sasha from the situation and had her play across the gym from the boy. Sasha stole his car...the neat one pictured above. Yeah he was pretty upset at that but oh well. The kids had to pick a bike or car to bring to the gym and the car was actually what he originally chose, thus it was "his" car. So Sasha got her retaliation :)

18 November 2007

The Director


Lately, Sasha has started telling us what to do. She's our little Director of Operations. During playtime, she'll give us toys to play with, point at us and the toy, and tell us to play with the toy. She'll make sure we're playing with them the way she wants, and if we're not, she'll yell at us, point insistently, or sometimes get mad. Then she'll take the toy away when she's done having us play with the one toy and will go seek another suitable activity for us. She can be very insistant, lol! It used to be that we would run around trying to entertain her but she's really flipping it around and is now in charge of playtime.

I'm assuming it's a phase. Or is it a sign of her personality? Hard for me to tell. I think it's funny and amusing for now.

16 November 2007

Baby Sign Language


Well, I'm overdue for a post on Sasha's sign language development. I've mentioned it in previous posts, especially when she learned a new sign, but I figured I'd put together a post and try to compile her current vocabulary. She just turned 14 months old. She signed her first sign (more) at 6 months, and I've been signing to her since she was two months old.
First, I'll try to list her signs. Wish me luck; I know I'll be coming back to edit this part as I remember more of them, as she's got a good sign language vocabulary.



  • Sister/Cassie - her favorite or most often used sign

  • Dad -the way she does this is cute. She points at her forehead, looks like think, or even worse, sometimes it looks like an 'L' on her forehead, like loser!

  • more - she bumps her fists together

  • all done

  • all gone - she only does this with one hand

  • eat

  • drink

  • milk

  • water
  • cereal - when she's eating her cheerios

  • potty - she does this sign a lot! When anyone goes potty, when the toilet flushes, when she's currently going potty. Hope that means she'll potty train easy, haha!

  • bath - one of her new favorite signs. Sometimes she literally makes motions across her whole body like she's washing up. arms, legs, and all.

  • bird - she surprised me with this sign one day. I showed it to her when she was looking at some geese outside. Then later that day she pointed at the tv and signed bird. Yep, there was a bird on televison!

  • dog - another favorite sign. She loves doggies. I wish she could see more of them as they make her so happy. She barks when she does this sign now

  • tree - she only signs this when I sign it first.

  • light - She loves lights! She points out every light in our hallway and can say 'light' also.

  • telephone - as much as she loves telephones, she doesn't do this sign often but I've seen her do it.

  • bye bye - bye bye, but I think most every baby can do this. She opens and closes her hands at head level. Funny thing is, she waits until the person leaves before she'll say bye bye to them. By that time, they're long gone.

  • shoes - This girl LOVES her shoes. If she doesn't have her shoes on, she'll ask for them to be put on, usually by bringing us her shoes and sticking out her feet. But she has on rare occasion signed shoe

  • socks- Her newest sign! She signed this one today. I didn't even know she knew this sign.

  • hat - She hardly ever does this sign, only did it to copy me when she did do it

  • baby signing time -she knows this as a phrase/song and as her sign language video, but not the individual words. One day I sang her the Intro song to the Baby Signing Time video (it's one of those annoying songs that sticks in your head) and she started signing "baby signing time"! I was impressed.

  • sleep - instead of signing this across her whole face, she just signs this over her lips and does a funny little raspberry. But she really means she's tired when she does this!

  • I know she knows more, I'll update this when I think of them

Some of her signs look similar, and I have a hard time distinguishing them. 'Milk', 'light', 'all done', 'bye-bye' sort of look the same the way she does them some times. I'm trying to get her to hold her hand up high over her head for the sign for 'light' so I can tell the difference but right now she opens and closes her hand at head level for 'light' and 'milk' and 'bye bye'. 'All done', she NORMALLY does with both hands but sometimes she gets lazy with it, then it looks like 'milk', light, etc.


Her signs are not precise by any means. By that, I mean her version of the sign does not look like the textbook version. But she has meaning behind them. When she signs 'all-done', she really means 'all-done', and she usually does it the same every time. In that respect, it is a true form of communication.


Suspiciously absent from her list is 'mom'! Nope, she won't sign Mom. She has signs for 'dad' and 'sister' but not 'mom'. Bummer!

Tea Time


Sasha is a little tea fiend. Then again, so is her Daddy. The two of them have a daily tea time ritual.
This has been going on for a while now. Jon likes to make tea by the gallon. We buy bulk tea leaves so he can make his tea and he can drink about a gallon a day. (1 US gallon = 3.7854118 liters). When it's time to make his tea for the day, Sasha always accompanies him. She insists upon it now. When Jon says 'tea', she gets very excited and runs to him, and she starts chanting 'tea, tea, tea'. When she says 'tea', it sounds like just the 't' sound of it without the vowel.
He balances Sasha in one arm, which leaves him his other arm to make the tea. Under Sasha's watchful eye, he fills the teapot with water, then puts it on the stovetop to bring to a boil. Sasha will let her daddy put her back down to run around the house while she waits for the tea water. When the tea water is boiling, the teapot whistles, and Sasha runs back into her daddy's arms. He measures the tea leaves into a large bowl, and counts each teaspoon out while Sasha watches. He carefully pours the hot tea water over the leaves, careful to stay balanced and not to let any steam or hot water get to Sasha.
It's just so cute how she insists on being in his arms every time he goes to make tea. She also loves to drink the tea! We now have a collection of Sasha teas...teas that are low in caffeine or uncaffeinated just for her. She has some plum tea, and fruit tea, both containing vitamin c and antioxidants, but she still loves just plain old black tea. When any of us is drinking our tea, she comes up to us and has us give her some of ours. She enjoys drinking it straight from our coffee mugs.

15 November 2007

Dad's got the schedule now

My first night back to work after implementing our new day shift schedule and routine. I wanted to take another personal day to stay home from work, but I'm all out of them so I had no choice. I was hoping to cement the new schedule a little more so that it would be easier on my husband. I know it is so hard on him to hear her cry.
She was asleep within two minutes tonight. I can't believe how well she goes to sleep at night.
I am at work right now. I know she was doing some night waking. I'm sure I'll hear more about that when I get home.
Meanwhile, I've been night weaning Sasha at the same time. The verdict is still out as to whether or not it is helping with her appetite. I am going to pump at work to keep my milk supply up just in case it doesn't. Today she ate a bunch of cheerios and some scrambled eggs. She also drank some milk and some tea. It's the first time she's ever drank cow's milk without refusing! Maybe this will work. I'm so optimistic!

(UPDATE: After I got home from work, Sasha and Jon were still asleep. Both got plenty of sleep! It's working!)